VISA APPLICATION!!!!!!!!!!

hello. I'm planning to apply for tourist visa to the US in order to see my fiance. He is not a citizen but he lives and works in Chicago on L1 visa. My cousin is also getting married around the same time and I wouldn't mind attending. Should I base my reason for applying as that I'm going to visit my fiance or my cousin? Which is best?  

VISA REFUSAL!!!!!

I applied for US visa once and was refused,eve UK was refused, l was only given SA visa, when l went for US in June l was told l was not ripe enough even despite asking me how many countries l have travelled to. Please what can l do?should l apply immediately or wait till next year 

HELP!!!!!

Please I would like to know if is really necessary for my bank statement to be 6 months old before I can apply, would they really check it? Also most I have traveled with my family before we can be granted a US Visa? Thanks.  

FAMILY INTERVIEW

Please I would like to know if my wife or kid would also be interviewed on our interview day, or am I going be the only one to be interviewed? since am going with them, we applied as family. I will also like to know the amount of money I am suppose to have in my bank account before printing the bank statement? 

WHATS THE BEST WAY TO APPLY FOR A US VISA

Hi everyone!! I am a married mother of 2 kids and am planning to apply for a tourist visa with my Family. 
Please what's the best way to apply? I have not beeen to america before but I have been to other parts. Thank You

MY INTERVIEW DATE COLLIDES WITH MY DELIVERY DATE HELP!!!

Please how do I go about this, my interview date collides with my expected delivery date. My plan was to have my baby over there where my husband resides but the date came rather late.

Should I write to them to postpone the interview data or should I wait till its close to my delivery and what duration will it take them to reschedule another interview date with me?  

HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I am a caterer,i ave been for 8 years,so i apply for a b1/b2 visa so i can attend a catering conference in Philadelphia called THE ART OF FOOD CATERING,i ave been refused twice now,the 1st time was 15th of July 2013,i was so downcast and decided to try again,i got another date for 29th of July and was refused, I am so so downcast and i really need to attend that conference to help my business.

my question is, I have been able to get a date for 1st week in august again,and the conference is on the 11th of august,do you think i will appear desperate and be refused?